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Tracing a long lost love.

tracing a long lost love
1966 Again…I wish. Hello, Jane, it would be worth going back in time, just to say hello to you again, I hope you are well wherever you are!

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Tempted to reach out again and try tracing a long lost love? Do you sometimes have deep regrets about the circumstances, and how it came about?

Especially when it was your fault and not theirs. Do you feel you got what you deserved? The chances are your long lost sweetheart is still out there somewhere. Maybe we can help you find them.

Would you like to tell you long lost sweetheart how sorry you are?

Maybe you are perhaps feeling wracked with guilt as to how it all ended? A never-ending feeling of shame, and melancholy, at your downright stupidity.

 Stalked by a lingering and persistent sadness. Even though many years have since passed.

For many, sadness and regret never seem to quite go away. Often remaining dormant for many years on- end. Only to suddenly and inexplicably the memories come flooding back.

Usually, the catalyst to these memory flashes is prompted by hearing a specific song. One which relates to that person and your time spent together. It’s very vivid!

Or revisiting a place you spent memorable times together in each others company.

Reconnection with a lost sweetheart.

One major hurdle for many is:- Finding the time to devote in locating your ex-special friend from the past.

Especially for younger people, where devoting spare time to things such as tracing old friends, is at a premium. Obviously, with so many demands on their time, it’s often no more just an occasional fleeting thought.

Conversely one of the benefits as we grow older is, being more introspective.

Thus finding certain days which are less packed.

This then provides an opportunity for us to embark on more frequents journeys. Involving reminiscing and mentally meandering back “through the passage of time”.

To wryly smile when recalling some of the crazy, chaotic, irrational, baffling and bizarre behaviours you got up to.

Especially remembering that special person with whom you shared those times gone-by- with. Mixed with the frustration and sadness that you will never see them again.

One of our client’s special person for him- was during the year 1966 when they first met.

“At that time we had just won the World Cup. I was age,’ 20, ‘wet behind the ears’- naïve, a know-all selfish, and frequently downright bloody stupid! 

Today (now in my 7th decade) I sometimes try to visualise the face of that very special person whom I let down so badly. Who I deservedly lost all those years ago. Trying in my mind to recall how she looked then, and how she might look today- Would I recognise her? Sadly not a single photograph.

Often, when I am passing people in the street (of the same age group) I find myself looking twice and thinking (illogically) maybe it is her! She could be ‘that one’ amongst 60 million other people.

Find a long lost love | Questions

Questioning myself? Why did I behave as I did?

Without shifting blame. In my early teens, one reason I suffered a distinct lack of self-confidence in finding any girlfriend at all.

Whenever I reached out to socialise with any young ladies, I usually tended to get the “brush-off”.

Hammersmith Palais the place to go.

More often than not my pal and I, would go to a dance (usually the Hammersmith Palais) and found ourselves being rejected by practically every girl, we asked to dance with.

In the end, we just didn’t have the confidence to try anymore. Subconsciously making us feel we were not worthy of having a girlfriend.

Instead, we tried to look macho by sitting casually on a bar stool all night. The alcohol did provide some “dutch courage” to try again,,, but being drunk didn’t add to our cause.

The upshot was, we gave up on going to dance halls. Instead, we began to frequent coffee bars where there was a juke-box. Great hangouts in those days and full of young people. When we both eventually found a nice girlfriend, we couldn’t quite believe it was for real.

What we did was to constantly reassure ourselves it was real.

To do this was would constantly test them out.

For example, we would often deliberately arrive late. This was just a way of obtaining a reaction. Designed, to find out if they really liked us enough to be forgiven. It was all a childish charade on our part. Designed to reassure our fragile ego’s.

Actually It seemed to work. The more we messed them about, the more they seemed to come back for more”.

This was certainly the case with the lady in question. Today he would like nothing more than to see her again. He is quite resigned to the fact she may not wish to hear from him and understands that. But he doesn’t care, is undeterred, and wants to give it his best shot. Should we help him, we think so!

Tracing a long lost love is what we are hoping to do for this gentleman. The story, to be continued

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