Seeing an old flame after a long time?

What are the odds of a happy outcome?

Finding the address of an Old Flame or a lost friend. Theoretically offers a wide range of tempting positive experiences in-store. For example, closure, emotional absolution, and dealing with feelings of guilt etc. A genuine wish to find out how someone you once cared for so much is today doing in life. To face an old flame with these questions can be a very positive experience. Set against this of course can be recrimination feelings of guilt and shame. So, for sure, you will find there are positives and minuses.

Contact an old flame– what to keep in mind

Whilst perhaps down to immaturity at the time, you deeply regret being so cold, indifferent and sometimes reckless with that person’s emotions. It is for many an overwhelming pull to turn back the clock and find an old-school childhood sweetheart flame.

Contact an old flame today you have the benefit of wisdom gained through age, and life experiences. It’s A very compelling experience to try and confront your guilt. Or try to repair any lasting bad memories or indeed Just to apologise!

Find the address of an old friend. To maximise your chances of success in contacting an old flame we suggest showing respect tolerance, and kindness towards them.

Elderly couple
contacting an old flame

Also, do not over flatter them

Allow them very much to be in their comfort zone.  Maintain a respectful low-key approach without any demands, only polite requests.

Contact an old flame Find the address This way by listening you can learn to judge better what parameters they are comfortable with.  Being patient and non-pushy can lead to more and better long-term bonding. Much better than attempting to smother them. Especially if in the past there was some acrimony in the relationship.

An old flame
Lovely reunion after a long time apart
  • Tracing an old flame from the distant past often rekindles many positive memories from your earlier life
  • Often old flame memories are rekindled through dreams. The dream can become the catalyst to reconnecting with that person.

In conclusion, finding a long-lost friend is always certainly worth a try

Generally, with “goodwill” any bad memories are blotted out. Most people who wish to reconnect with an old “boy or girlfriend” lost are genuine and for a sincere reason.

Wishing to restore at least a friendship and to remain that way – that’s why an old flame decides to contact you in most cases. Very few are seeking or expecting any kind of romance. Having said that we don’t know as some will not admit their true motives for reconnection. So, in truth, none of us really know the answer here.

On the other hand for some, the reunion is a huge and positive plus for both- romantically. Many of our old flame seekers are elderly and living alone for various reasons.

What a fillip in their lives to meet up again with an old high school friend now possibly widowed/er or divorced, and equally living alone. To find them again after many decades is something quite wonderful and rejuvenates their lives.

  • Why do old flames come back?

Of course, there are many possible answers to that question, too frequent and varied to cover all of them here. But to give some indication from our experience, reaching out to an old flame delivers a certain special unique, comfort, and reassurance. Often just what’s needed when perhaps on the rebound from a painful experience in the romance Dept. Think of the old expression/saying:- it’s better the devil you know than the unknown! We understand from various statistics published, that reconnecting with an old flame enjoys a very high success rate. So, yes, go for it!

  • Is it a good idea to rekindle an old flame?

Speaking to others and from our own considerable experience when contact with an old flame, although there are both plus and minuses, statistics show an overwhelming history of successful reconnections. Of course, each individual is unique and different, it does however look, on balance, to be a good idea.

One huge plus is you both clearly remember the mistakes made the first time around, and do everything not to repeat them. Also, there is refreshing maturity that evolved which can help things along. A fresh start, new approaches but all with a familiar post-old flame. Certainly, lot to learn about picking up on everything again.

  • How to contact an old flame?

Let’s begin by saying the chances of you reconnecting naturally are very slim. So some intervention is required. One of the most popular approaches is via a third party. Like a go-between or a referee. In the early stages this can generate a more open and frank approach than you yourself might convey. Of course you then have to find such an intermediary whom you can trust.  Obviously a mutual friend is a good option and non-judgemental.

But if it was a few years ago how many people have you retained a friendship with? Some are living miles away, others abroad, and in most cases unable to arrange a physical meeting. In conclusion, we feel the best solution, although far from perfect, is to employ an agency here we respectfully mention ourselves friends reconnected who specialises in reconnecting old friends/old flames. They can maintain a healthy barrier until both parties are ready. Of course, there are many other solutions/options, but we hope we have provided a few pointers. Good Luck.

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