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Contacting an Old Flame is It a Good Idea?

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contacting old flame

When considering to contact an old flame-

what are the odds of a happy outcome? 

Theoretically deciding to contact an old flame offers a wide range of tempting positive experience in store. For example: Closure and emotional absolution feelings of guilt etc. A genuine wish to find out how someone you once cared for so much is now doing in life. To face an old flame with these questions and answers can be a very positive experience.

When Contacting an ex boy or girl friend -what to keep in mind.

Whilst perhaps down to immaturity you deeply regret being so cold, indifferent, and reckless with that person’s emotions. There is for many an overwhelming pull to turn back the clock.

Now armed with the benefit of wisdom gained through age, and life experiences it’s very compelling to try and confront your guilt. Or try to repair any lasting bad memories or indeed Just to apologise!

To maximise your chances of success in reconnecting with your old flame we suggest show respect tolerance and kindness towards them.

Also do not over flatter them as it often doesn’t  go down well.

Allow them very much to be in their comfort zone.  Maintain a respectful low key approach without any demands only polite requests. This way by listening, you can learn to judge better what are the parameters they are comfortable with.  Being patient and non pushy, can lead to more and better long term bonding. Much better than attempting  to smother them. Especially if in the past there was some acrimony in the relationship.

Tracing an old love from the distant past often rekindle many positive memories from your earlier life.

Moreover these memories are very resilient leaving an indelible imprint which remains with us forever. Once the memories are rekindled they are overwhelming and obsessional sometimes. Often Old flame memories are rekindled through dreams. The dream can become the catalyst to reconnecting with that person.

In conclusion finding a long lost friend is always worth a try.

Generally with “good will” any bad memories are blotted out. Most people who wish to reconnect with an old “boy or girl friend” lost are genuine and for sincere reason. Such as: wishing to restore at least a friendship and to remain that way. Very few are seeking or expecting any kind of romance. On the other hand for some, the reunion is a huge and positive plus for both- romantically.  Many of our old lost love seekers are elderly and living alone for various reasons.

What a fillip in their lives to meet up again with an old high school friend now possible widowed, or divorced and equally living alone. To find them again after many decades is something quite wonderful.

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