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Want to Locate an Old Girlfriend-but Only Remember Her First Name.

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Lost love where are you now? Finding a lost sweetheart (old flame) 

You only remember ex girl friends first name. Can we find them?

Its still theoretically possible but, only if we have the full names of any friends or relatives. With that infornation and not a common surname such as “Smith” we will give it a go. Without that information its virtually impossble. UNLESS you are prepared to spend literally £1000’s on the search.

A question many of our enquirers are keen to know

Where are you now (of course) and what are you doing? Happy? How has life been for you?  Married, are you a grandparent etc.

For those of us IN a certain age bracket these words resonate. Inspired thoughts perhaps prompted by a song which resurrects memories of a long lost era.

for example “Lost Love-Where Are You Now  My Love”

Sung by Jackie Trent and written by Tony Hatch. The great Husband and Wife songwriting team.

Those lazy hazy days- long gone by become magnified in their importance to us oldies.  Perhaps we are wearing rose tinted glasses!

Those lazy, hazy, long hot summer days of the mid-1960s or another time.

Memories stubbornly linger on in the hearts and minds. Memories of perhap a period of youthful naivety baby boomer generation.

It always seemed to be never ending long hot summer days. Hippies wearing funky clothing adorned with wild flowers and sandal wearing, spreading peace and kindness to others.

Of course there were many not so good aspect to this era too. But no doubt we probably inadvertently cut these negatives out of the landscape. But it was for most of us -a great time.

A time with totally no stress or worries. Approaching mid teens and heading rapidly towards adulthood and eventual boring responsibility. So: Where are you now… my former sweetheart? is it possible I can find you!-again? Oh, I do hope so, if only to say just once  more hello again. But…Lost Love Where Are You Now….!!! Somewhere out there but- where?

Lost Love where are you now-Reflecting on a time long gone and my old flame

For many the most vivid and lingering memories are those of the loves which were won and lost. From my own personal recollections, more about the ones I had lost as I was never very good at this dating lark. Certainly not the stereotype rugged brooding handsome macho like “James Dean” for example.

Regret over bad behaviour towards an ex girl or boyfriend.

Lost Love where are you now is something we often ask ourselves. Can you forgive me?

Personally at times I was in hindsight unkind to some of my ex girl friends. Conversely some of my girl friends were not  particularly kind to me either. Perhaps they weren’t interested and this was their way of letting me down gently.

IRather bizarrely and in hindsight I would finish seeing a particular girl for the daft reason of: “it was not macho to just have one Girlfriend”. Influenced by the smouldering images of the Elvis Presley, Billy Fury and some other artist of that time who portrayed in their music- treat them mean! This seemed to rub off on some of us. Being a heartbreaker raised your ‘street- cred’ – meant a tough and macho heart breaker image/profile.

Maybe we hoped after treating them unkindly they would try to be more submissive and run after us. In many cases from my experiences this was not the case. Indeed some I have reconnected with some fifty years later still bear a grudge, and want nothing more to do with me. That is despite a very respectful and humble apologetic letter.

Apart from the obvious- why does an old friend or lover not at least write back and say a simple “hello I am fine”. but don’t write again.  This is something we will never know the answer to!

Where are you now my dear old friend?

Want us to investigate and attempt to find that special old friend,the one- who got away? We do have a very good success rate but it does take a considerably amount of time.

Lost Love where are you now-let’s go find them. Time is running out for us baby boomers.lets not delay!

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